Attractiveness

What determines attractiveness?Is it your face shape? What you wear how your voice sounds? Well it could be all those things and more. It is said attractiveness can be taken in 3 forms, Beauty, Non physical, and long term. We intitially are attracted to someone because of their looks wether they have awesome hair a nice smile and a fabulous body, We as humans all look for similiar attributes but to each individual these attributes are judged differently. Attraction can be broken down into 3 different categories, Beauty, Non-physical traits and longterm. If you were to consider your relationship right now or assess how you get into a relationship you would find that all the qualities could fit under these categories. In order to want to be with someone you have to be physically attracted to them. Then in order to contines the relationship or perhaps even engage the relationship there has to be certain qualities in that person that you are attracted to. For example I am attracted to my boyfriends humour and outook on life. If the relationship goes well then you start looking for qualities that are more long term. For example what are their dreams and aspirations do they want kids? where do they want live? and that kind of thing.Our attraction for someone can diminish over time essentially because they are not meeting one or more of your desires in any of these categories. Attraction is a funny thing it can range from shallow to deep and you never know where it may ultimately take you