Wednesday, December 1, 2010
My comfort zone
Today in class we were asked what arecontours, or limits for our comfort level? and why? I have never really thought about it before. I feel Im fairly open and feel very comfortable in most settings.I suppose if I were to focus on perhaps my limits on sex I am a little uncomfortable with the idea of sex toys and such. I was a bridesmaid at my cousins wedding and for part of her bachelourette party we had a passion party. I didnt mind it but i personally dont understand why its called a "party" all it was was a lady trying to sell sex toys.So I think that leads into my discomfort a bit. It feels very natural for me to talk about sex I have had with another person. However, to talk about how a vibrator made me feel or something like that just seems really weird to me. I would probably be really uncomfortable if someone were to randomly just talking about their sex toys or something like that. I feel its so personal that no one needs to know.On a slightly different note it makes me uncomfortable when older men flirt with me. It just creeps me out when someone the age of my dad comes through my til, and says you know you are extremely beautiful. Its like thanks for the compliment but I find it inappropriate.While watching the little clip from kink I didnt feel uncomfortable at all I realize people have different kinds of relationships and sexual relationships. So didnt feel the least bit surprised or uncomfortable. Except for when the one couple was packing a bunch of their sex toys. I was just thinking do you need all those? But everyone explores sex in different ways. My comfort levels are pretty high and someone would have to do something really out of the normal for me to feel extremely uncomfortable
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